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#30DaysofBlackJoy…Day 21-Joyful Black Spaces: “The Black Church”

Welcome back to another Wednesday edition of #JoyfulBlackSpaces with BFF guest blogger, Lauren N. Jackson. 

What are Black spaces? As a reminder, Black spaces are intentional spaces and environments designed to uplift and empower the Black community. These spaces bring JOY because they allow Blacks to rid themselves of the daily microaggressions, racism, and prejudices often experienced in society, and allow them to fully embrace their Blackness; their uniqueness, dialect, identity, and culture. Black spaces include spaces like higher education institutions, restaurants, churches, museums, and the like.

Today’s #BlackJoy moment we will focus on “The Black Church.”

“Amazing Grace, how sweet the sound. That saved a wretch like me.” The sweet sounds of the spiritual song, Amazing Grace, and other hymns are the staple of most Black churches in America. These hymns hold deep meaning and significance within the context of the Black church. They are not merely songs, but powerful expressions of faith, resilience, and hope. These hymns have been passed down through generations, carrying the collective experiences, struggles, and triumphs of African Americans. 

Hymns are just one aspect that shapes what the Black church is today. A closer look at history reveals that Black churches were birthed during times of oppression and adversity, and provided a sanctuary for African Americans to gather, worship, and find solace. And for at least two hours on Sunday mornings, Blacks can be free and liberated from societal ills. And today, the same rings true. “The Black Church” has been a place where individuals can express their spirituality freely, connect with a higher power, and find comfort in a community that understands their struggles; all while wearing their “Sunday Best” attire. Predominantly Black churches continue to progressively lead the charge for several causes: spirituality, activism, and leadership. 

Weekly powerful sermons by the pastor, moving songs of praise and worship by the choir, and soul-moving prayers by church leaders help to shape and deepen the spiritual growth and development of parishioners. Outside of the four walls of the church, many Black churches have been instrumental in advocating for social justice and working together to address societal issues that impact Black communities: healthcare, poverty, and education; to name a few. The Black church embodies JOY because it’s a space that offers strength, hope, belonging, resilience, and an opportunity to engage in vibrant worship, celebration, and praise!

I would like to shout out two churches that have played an integral role in my spiritual growth and development: Faith Temple Church of God in Christ (COGIC) in Wilmington, NC (my home church) and Cedar Street Baptist Church of God in Richmond, VA (my local church). Thank you to Pastor Lorenzo Edge and Dr. Anthony Michael Chandler, Sr. for your spirit-filled sermons, service to the church and community, and for creating opportunities for me to develop as a leader within and outside the church!

Want to learn more about the Black church? Check out these phenomenal documentaries and articles that highlight the historical foundations of the Black church and their relevance today:

You can also check out some of these top Gospel hits in the playlists below!

“Nothing is more powerful than the Black church experience. A good choir and a good sermon in the black church, it’s pretty hard not to be moved and be transported.” ~Barack Obama

See you all tomorrow!!

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#30DaysofBlackJoy…Day 20-Celebrating Literary Black Joy (Dr. G’s Monthly Book Recommendations-June Edition)!!

I am truly a sucker for a good book. Getting caught up in a good book definitely brings me much joy!! Books on top of Books, this is definitely something that you will not see a shortage of whether in my home or office. Black joy is not limited to one idea, much like reading diversely is not limited to one genre of interest.

Thus, today’s #BlackJoy moment is all about celebrating Black literary work that encompasses Pride, Juneteenth, and Summer Solstice! Along with my monthly book recommendation list, I am including books that exude and channel Black Joy!!

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Black Joy Book List

  • The Catch Me If You Can: One Woman’s Journey to Every Country in the World ~Jessica Nabongo
  • It’s Not All Downhill From Here ~Terry McMillan
  • Open Water ~Caleb Azumah Nelson
  • Who Will You Be? by Andrea Pippins
  • Friday I’m in Love ~Camryn Garrett
  • A Lowcountry Bride ~Preslaysa Williams
  • You So Black by Theresa tha S.O.N.G.B.I.R.D
  • A Garden of Black Joy: Global Poetry from the Edges of Liberation and Living ~Black Table Arts
  • Meals, Music and Muses: Recipes from My African American Kitchen ~Alexander Smalls

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Dr. G’s Monthly Book Recommendations-June Edition

  • Jubilee ~Margaret Walker
  • Power & Magic The Queer Witch Comics Anthology ~Edited by Joamette Gil
  • Black Queer Freedom : Spaces of Injury and Paths of Desire ~GerShun Avilez
  • Palmares by Gayl Jones
  • Light for the World to See: A Thousand Words on Race and Hope ~Kwame Alexander
  • Charming As a Verb ~Ben Philippe
  • The Brightest Day: A Juneteenth Historical Romance Anthology ~Kianna Alexander, Alyssa Cole, Lena Hart, & Piper Huguley
  • Beasts of Prey & Beasts of Ruin ~Ayana Gray

Happy Pride Month!! Happy Juneteenth!! and Happy Summer Solstice!!

By sharing these lists I hope they bring you much joy as you read them and please feel free to share these awesome literary treats/books by Black authors with your friends and family!!

And remember you can always go back and check out the previous month’s list and past recommendations in the “Resource” section of the website!!

“Never be afraid to sit a while and think.” ~Lorraine Hansberry

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Happy Juneteenth!!

Just wanted to re-share a past discussion I had with one of my friends and colleagues Kaniqua Robinson on the history and contemporary relevance of the Juneteenth holiday as a curated expression of Black joy and agency.

The message then is still very much relevant today!!

Happy Juneteenth Family & Friends!!

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#30DaysofBlackJoy…Day 19-Happy Juneteenth!!

“Freeing yourself was one thing, claiming ownership of that freed self was another.” ~Toni Morrison

**This article was originally published in 2021. It was updated in 2023.**

Today marks the 158th year since the message of freedom was delivered to those enslaved in Texas, also known as Juneteenth (portmanteau of June and nineteenth)!! A celebration of emancipation, liberation, and Black Joy!!

And what is Juneteenth? Juneteenth refers to June 19th, 1865 the day when Union troops arrived in Galveston Bay, Texas to inform the 250,000 enslaved Black people that they were free. Keep in mind the Emancipation Proclamation (which ended slavery) had went into effect January 1st, 1863 (also the start of watch night services), so Texas would not get this memo for almost two and half years later. And people wonder why Black people cannot wait for change! Why we are persistent about consistent upward and forward movement! Why are Black people not quick to trust, because of past failures and screw ups like what happened in Galveston, TX. Nevertheless, the chains are breaking and the truth is being revealed.

In a way there has been this sudden awakening regarding the Juneteenth holiday. Much like how the message of freedom was delayed in its delivery to those enslaved in Texas, one could say there is a delayed recognition (on a larger scale) of the Juneteenth holiday. With all of the the national protests, police violence, and continuous murder of Black and Brown bodies of last year the U.S. would be reminded of past moments of resistance and endurance. This acknowledgement rebirth is what I like to think of as a memory survival. As Isabel Wilkerson writes in her amazing book, The Warmth of Other Suns: The Epic Story of America’s Great Migration, “The people from Texas took Juneteenth Day to Los Angeles, Oakland, Seattle, and other places they went.” And thank goodness the memory of Juneteenth will always be present, because we cannot afford to have any more delays, these are moments that we need right now and always!

So when did I learn about Juneteenth, I remember it being brought up during one of my summer classes as an Upward Bound student, and in passing from one of my aunts who lives in Texas. But I would really learn about Juneteenth while attending Clark Atlanta University (Atlanta, GA) and while out grocery shopping and a young man handed me a flyer for a Juneteenth celebration that was set to take place. Outside of the above-mentioned instances, I did not have any previous knowledge. Now I am not surprised by this, nor am I surprised that many other Black folks are only just now aware of what Juneteenth is and its significance. Even though I may not be from Texas, I take Juneteenth as my Independence Day/Emancipation Day, because clearly July 4th is not!!

Juneteenth is not only a day to celebrate, but also another day to inform the masses, continue speaking out on injustices, and always a day to remember! It’s also another excuse for me to celebrate my Blackness and create more ways to express #BlackJoy and agency. This holiday is also an opportunity to instill values of self-improvement, racial uplift, and reclamation of the family unit. These values were personified through religious sermons and the singing of negro spirituals, reading of the Emancipation Proclamation, rodeos, and the preservation of slave food traditions and delicacies (ex. BBQ and soul food). Juneteenth serves as another holiday that allows Black folks to commune and fellowship and just be free with ourselves!!

Today’s #BlackJoyMoment is about honoring and celebrating Juneteenth! In 2023, Juneteenth continues to be more than just a holiday, but in many ways a movement!! Not only are school curriculums slowly changing, but we are also becoming more informed about the holiday through popular media. To get you in the spirit, I have compiled a few things to get you in the celebratory mood!

Television & Film

  • 2nd Annual “Juneteenth: A Global Celebration for Freedom” Concert (CNN & OWN, 8 pm/ET)
  • Juneteenth Honors (Shades of Black/FAST channel, 8 pm/ET)
  •  Fight the Power: How Hip-Hop Changed the World (2023) [PBS]
  • Civil War (Or, Who Do We Think We Are) (2021) [Peacock]
  • Who We Are: A Chronicle of Racism in America (2021) [Netflix]
  • High on the Hog: How African American Cuisine Transformed America- Episode #4-“Freedom” (2021) [Netflix]
  • Miss Juneteenth (2020) [Prime Video, Apple TV+]
  • Juneteenth Jamboree: A Place For Families (2016) [PBS]

Traditional Food & Drink to Enjoy

  • Red Foods & Drink [Red foods and drinks are the most prominent feature on a Juneteenth menu]: Red Punch, Red Velvet Cake, Hibiscus tea, Red beans & rice, Strawberries, and Watermelon
  • BBQ Foods: Chicken, Pork, Ribs, Hot links, and Brisket
  • Prosperity Meals/Sides: Collard greens and Cabbage, Black-eyed peas, Yams, Sweet Potatoes, Corn, and Cornbread
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Juneteenth Resources:

And as a personal shout-out, check out this latest VCU News article where I am featured sharing my contribution to the Juneteenth Watch-List !!

Juneteenth Flag (The above Blue color represents the horizon blue and the red color below is symbolic of the ground soaked with blood…The five-pointed star refers both to Texas and to the “freedom of African Americans in all 50 states”; surrounding it is a new star, which represents a new beginning for all.)

In the end when I think about Juneteenth I am still hopeful…And I am definitely excited. Juneteenth is a holiday even worthy of being acknowledged internationally. Hopeful that the celebration of this holiday is not just for a moment or season, but for an infinity of lifetimes. Excited because with each passing day more and more people are learning about the importance and significance of Juneteenth!! Even if this is your first year, make sure it is not your last!!

Happy Juneteenth!! And I will see you tomorrow!!

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#30DaysofBlackJoy…Day 18-Black Joy in Fatherhood!!

To all the fathers, grandfathers, uncles, first-time dads, and father figures, Happy Father’s Day!! Considering the constant barrage of media misinformation and societal misconceptions surrounding the role Black fathers play in the lives of their children, it is necessary to reclaim the narrative and create a new definition! According to Alvin Thomas in a 2022 Salon.com article, Black men continue to embrace their paternal roles despite significant challenges — and are often expected to make tough decisions in the best interests of their children and families.

So today’s #BlackJoy moment is about showcasing and celebrating all things Black fatherhood!! Here are five Black Dad influencers who are sharing their fatherhood journeys of love, joy, and grace!!

  • The Dad Gang (@thedadgang): The Dad Gang is “an organization committed to building community amongst Black fathers globally.”
  • Black Dads Count (@blackdadscount):  Black Dads Count “is an effort to educate, encourage and inspire Black Dads to fully engage in their civic responsibility.”
  • Dope Black Dads (@dopeblackdads): “Dope Black Dads is a digital safe space for fathers who wish to discuss their experiences of being black, a parent, and masculinity in the modern world. Our aim is to celebrate, heal, inspire, and educate Black fathers for better outcomes for Black families.”
  • Fathers Incorporated (@fathersincorporated): Fathers Incorporated “works to change the current societal and cultural definition of family to be inclusive of fathers.”
  • Dear Fathers (@dear.fathers): Dear Fathers “is a media platform dedicated to telling stories of black fathers from all angles while also empowering our community with tangible resources that inspire, heal, and strengthen the Black man.”

“To be the father of a nation is a great honor, but to be the father of a family is a greater joy.” ~Nelson Mandela

See you tomorrow!!

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#30DaysofBlackJoy…Day 17-Finding Black Joy in Affirmations!!

I GOT THIS!! Be Your Own Hype Person!! Whether you believe it or not there is value in patting yourself on the back and being your own cheerleader!! One of the many ways this can be done is through affirmations. Affirmations are statements that can brighten your outlook on life and the world. When you say them to yourself regularly or write them down in a journal these statements can change the game!! Affirmations also help build confidence and reduce our stress responses, which in turn can make us more resilient in the face of challenges and crises. The great thing about affirmations is that they have no cost and can be used whenever and wherever!! You gotta love that!!

Today’s #BlackJoy moment is about finding joy in affirmations!! Here are a few affirmations to get you through the day, week, month, or year!!

As you take in these affirmations remember this: Be intentional…Embrace the statements…Breathe in and Breathe out!

See you all tomorrow!!

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#30DaysofBlackJoy…Day 16-Black Music Appreciation-“Joy in a Song!!”

We got another week of #BlackMusicAppreciation on deck!! Today’s #BlackJoy curated playlist is all about literal joy in a song!!

Right now is a great time to get some feel-good, healing vibes!! Whether you are taking a morning walk with your dog, a run on the treadmill, or driving your commute to work, a joyful song can set the tone and mood! With everything going on in the world, we could all use some joyful tunes!!

Special shout out to my friend and colleague Shermaine Jones for helping curate this week’s list!! See this week’s #BlackJoy playlist below:

And as a special treat, we got a double bonus with the recent NPR Music #TinyDeskConcert performances from Babyface and Tank!!

Babyface

Tank

And remember if there’s a track or two that you think should make the list, make sure to drop it in the comments section!!

See you all tomorrow!!

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#30DaysofBlackJoy…Day 14 -Joyful Black Spaces: Family Reunions/Cookouts 

Welcome back to another Wednesday edition of #JoyfulBlackSpaces with guest blogger, Lauren N. Jackson. 

What are Black spaces? Just as a reminder, Black spaces are intentional spaces and environments designed to uplift and empower the Black community. These spaces bring JOY because they allow Blacks to rid themselves of the daily microaggressions, racism, and prejudices often experienced in society, and allows them to fully embrace their Blackness; their uniqueness, dialect, identity, and culture. Black spaces include spaces like: higher education institutions, restaurants, churches, museums and the like.

Today’s #BlackJoy moment we will focus on “Family Reunions/Cookouts.” As summer quickly approaches, Black families begin to prepare for their upcoming family reunions and cookouts. They begin sending out invitations, purchasing family reunion shirts, putting together the latest musical playlists, planning the menu, and organizing activities and games. 

Family reunions and cookouts are special times when Black families come together to celebrate their shared heritage, strengthen family bonds, and create lasting memories. These gatherings allow family members from different generations to reconnect and reminisce about the experiences and customs that have defined their family history.

During these spaces of JOY, the air is filled with enticing aromas of grilled hotdogs and hamburgers, which creates a mouthwatering ambiance. The rhythmic pulses of beloved songs drive family members of all ages to hit the dance floor (typically the grassy portions of the large family backyard) and show off their best routines, such as the electric slide, cupid shuffle, wobble, or tootsie roll. Meanwhile, the older uncles may congregate around a table engaged in a boisterous game of spades, a famous card game known for strategic gameplay and lively banter. Playing spades not only entertains but also functions as a bonding experience, strengthening camaraderie and intergenerational relationships. For others who do not know how to play Spades (like myself), we competitively engage in games like Uno, Bingo, Checkers, Sorry, and Twister; to name a few. 

While some family members are immersed in the lively atmosphere, others may seek refuge under a tree, seeking shade from the warm summer sun. Conversations and reflections take place in these shaded spaces. Relatives weave together the strands of their family history via stories, laughter, and heartfelt discussions. They reminisce about fond memories, recalling the triumphs, trials, and shared experiences that have molded their family’s journey. These spaces of JOY remind Black families how far they’ve come and the future that awaits. 

Want to try a new recipe for your upcoming cookout? Or need a playlist to start practicing your dance moves? We’ve got you covered! Check out BFF’s #BlackJoy and #BlackMusicAppreciation series playlists on Spotify, Black People’s Recipes and the Black Cookout Music Playlist 2023 created by YouTuber, Akim Deen. 

While planning your next family reunion or cookout, don’t forget to celebrate the Juneteenth holiday on Monday, June 19, 2023. Plan to engage in these and other upcoming #Juneteenth festivities the entire month of June: Celebrate Juneteenth in the Richmond Region, the Freedom Festival, and Educational Events to Celebrate Juneteenth

See you all tomorrow! 

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#30DaysofBlackJoy…Day 13-Highlighting Black Podcasts!!

At one time they were called “audioblogs” now they are simply just podcasts. Think of the radio with a ton of channels. These digital episodic programs can take you into many spaces, whether you need a laugh, some motivation, to catch up on the news, learn about different cultures, or try to solve a true-crime mystery. Podcasts have definitely become a part of my regular routine. I find myself listening to podcasts in a variety of situations whether it is on a road trip, passing time on the treadmill, sitting out on the beach, or lounging in my apartment. They entertain, inform, and bring joy! When you factor in Blackness, podcasts have become a unique media space for Black folks to feel represented.

With popular media outlets struggling to diversify their content, Black creators are using podcasts to tell and share their own stories. Many of these creators are adding to the Black experience, while redefining what representation means for the listeners who tune in. As noted by Nancy Marshall in a January 2023 Forbes article, the key to success with podcasting is to “figure out your “superpower”—whatever it may be—and share your expertise with your listeners.” Black creators are definitely tapping into their superpower to manifest and distribute some amazing content.

Thus, today’s #BlackJoy Moment is about spotlighting a few Black podcasts that are hitting the mark in a major way!!

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Check them out below:

  • The Stoop: The Stoop podcast digs into stories that are not always shared out in the open. Hosts Leila Day and Hana Baba start conversations and provide professionally-reported stories about what it means to be Black and how we talk about blackness.
  • Truth’s Table: “Midwives of culture for grace and truth.” Welcome to Truth’s Table with Christina Edmondson, and Ekemini Uwan. We are Black Christian women who love truth and seek it out wherever it leads us. We will share our perspectives on race, politics, gender, current events, and pop culture that are filtered through our Christian faith. So pull up a chair and have a seat at the table with us. 
  • The Read: Join bloggers Kid Fury and Crissle for their weekly podcast covering hip-hop and pop culture’s most trying stars. Throwing shade and spilling tea with a flippant and humorous attitude, no star is safe from Fury and Crissle unless their name is Beyoncé. (Or Blue Ivy.) As transplants to New York City (Kid Fury from Miami and Crissle from Oklahoma City), The Read also serves as an on-air therapy session for two friends trying to adjust to life (and rats) in the big city.
  • The Right Time with Bomani Jones: Bomani Jones weighs in on sports, pop culture, social topics and more, with your comments on Mondays, friends of the show on Wednesdays and Domonique Foxworth on Fridays.
  • Decoding 40: Decoding 40 is a hilarious podcast series by three unapologetic Black men who delve into and decipher the intricate thoughts and issues of today’s mature men. Join Vincent, Alaric, and Leon for an inside look into the unfiltered minds of men, with a drink in hand, of course! This podcast is not for the easily offended but is sure to have you laughing until it hurts. Consider this your TRIGGER warning. If you’re looking for a Black men’s podcast that fearlessly explores complex topics, Decoding 40 is the one for you.
  • Truth Be Told: We’re the friend you call after a long day. The one who gets it. Through soul-nourishing conversations, host Tonya Mosley explores Black liberation with some of the greatest thinkers of our time. 
  • Wine & Hip Hop: CRU LUV Wine’s founder Jermaine Stone talks to hip-hop personalities and wine professionals to find the perfect match between music and wine in an informative, entertaining, and organic way. On each episode guests choose a song or bottle of wine, Jermaine selects a pairing, and they discuss their choices on the show.
  • We Talk Back: Hosted by two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talk back, TamBam and AJ are helping women maneuver through the Sea of Men! “We Talk Back” podcast is here to guide femininity to its ultimate greatness. We Talk Back podcast is giving their listeners the raw and unfiltered comedic gift of repartee. With thought-provoking conversations about sex, relationships, and money with a dash of danger and glitter. TamBam & AJ will also help listeners seeking non-professional guidance, as these ladies deliver advice and their personal thoughts on topics.
  • Jemele Hill is Unbothered: Emmy Award-winning journalist and Webby Award winner Jemele Hill shares her unbothered, nuanced opinions on news, pop culture, politics, and sports. She also conducts intimate interviews with some of the biggest names and most thought-provoking contributors to culture, music, and entertainment.
  • Still Processing: Wesley Morris and J Wortham are working it out in this weekly show about culture in the broadest sense. That means television, film, books, music — but also the culture of work, dating, the internet and how those all fit together.
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You can find any of these podcasts on Spotify, YouTube, Soundcloud, Apple podcast, or wherever you tune in!

See you all tomorrow!!

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#30DaysofBlackJoy…Day 12-“Must Watch Summer TV”

Good Day, Friends and Family!! I hope everyone had a great weekend! I know I did it was filled with lots of laughs, tasty treats, and good fellowship!! It’s nothing like finding joy in the small things of life! And for me sitting on my couch, curled up with a snack and a spirited beverage, while binging the latest television series is just the prescription I need!!

So today’s #BlackJoy moment is about sharing some upcoming “Must Watch Summer TV”!! I have compiled a list of TV shows that either just dropped or will be dropping soon that feature primarily Black cast and shows that have Black folks as the lead. These are shows that can be viewed across several streaming networks.

Check them out below:

  • Season 2-Run the World (Starz)
  • Season 2-The Wonder Years (ABC/Hulu)
  • I’m a Virgo (Prime Video)
  • Secret Invasion (Disney+)
  • Hijack (Apple TV+)
  • Survival of the Thickest (Netflix)
  • Twisted Metal (Peacock/USA)
  • Average Joe (BET+)
  • The Lazarus Project (TNT)
  • Grown-ish (Freeform/Hulu)
  • The Upshaws (Netflix)

What other shows are you watching or looking forward to watching this summer??

See you all tomorrow!!