Welcome back to another Wednesday edition of #JoyfulBlackSpaces with guest blogger, Lauren N. Jackson.
What are Black spaces? Just as a reminder, Black spaces are intentional spaces and environments designed to uplift and empower the Black community. These spaces bring JOY because they allow Blacks to rid themselves of the daily microaggressions, racism, and prejudices often experienced in society, and allows them to fully embrace their Blackness; their uniqueness, dialect, identity, and culture. Black spaces include spaces like: higher education institutions, restaurants, churches, museums and the like.
Today’s #BlackJoy moment we will focus on “Family Reunions/Cookouts.” As summer quickly approaches, Black families begin to prepare for their upcoming family reunions and cookouts. They begin sending out invitations, purchasing family reunion shirts, putting together the latest musical playlists, planning the menu, and organizing activities and games.
Family reunions and cookouts are special times when Black families come together to celebrate their shared heritage, strengthen family bonds, and create lasting memories. These gatherings allow family members from different generations to reconnect and reminisce about the experiences and customs that have defined their family history.
During these spaces of JOY, the air is filled with enticing aromas of grilled hotdogs and hamburgers, which creates a mouthwatering ambiance. The rhythmic pulses of beloved songs drive family members of all ages to hit the dance floor (typically the grassy portions of the large family backyard) and show off their best routines, such as the electric slide, cupid shuffle, wobble, or tootsie roll. Meanwhile, the older uncles may congregate around a table engaged in a boisterous game of spades, a famous card game known for strategic gameplay and lively banter. Playing spades not only entertains but also functions as a bonding experience, strengthening camaraderie and intergenerational relationships. For others who do not know how to play Spades (like myself), we competitively engage in games like Uno, Bingo, Checkers, Sorry, and Twister; to name a few.
While some family members are immersed in the lively atmosphere, others may seek refuge under a tree, seeking shade from the warm summer sun. Conversations and reflections take place in these shaded spaces. Relatives weave together the strands of their family history via stories, laughter, and heartfelt discussions. They reminisce about fond memories, recalling the triumphs, trials, and shared experiences that have molded their family’s journey. These spaces of JOY remind Black families how far they’ve come and the future that awaits.
Want to try a new recipe for your upcoming cookout? Or need a playlist to start practicing your dance moves? We’ve got you covered! Check out BFF’s #BlackJoy and #BlackMusicAppreciation series playlists on Spotify, Black People’s Recipes and the Black Cookout Music Playlist 2023 created by YouTuber, Akim Deen.
While planning your next family reunion or cookout, don’t forget to celebrate the Juneteenth holiday on Monday, June 19, 2023. Plan to engage in these and other upcoming #Juneteenth festivities the entire month of June: Celebrate Juneteenth in the Richmond Region, the Freedom Festival, and Educational Events to Celebrate Juneteenth.
See you all tomorrow!
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